“Ballet is a very specific design of movement and physicality. You can master it for a certain amount of time to a certain degree. But then, it will end. You might not necessarily know when that’s going to happen.” ~Wendy Whelan

Wendy Whelan’s dancing is hauntingly beautiful. I had the privilege of experiencing it for the first time from the 2^nd row of the theatre at Lincoln Center when I was just 15.

The focus with which I watched her is something I still remember. It’s a focus that she gives back when you see her on stage. She kept me on the edge of my seat.

Watching Restless Creature brought me back to my feelings watching Wendy Whelan on stage. It also gave me a new insight into the devotion of a Principal dancer at a company like New York City Ballet.

One of the things I found most inspiring was Wendy’s journey back from major surgery. If you’ve ever been through the physical and emotional pain of injury – watching Wendy go through it will pick you up and motivate you to keep working.

And most dancers can relate to the emotion behind Wendy’s journey to the end of her career as a “ballerina”.

She brings fresh thinking however to what it means to be a “dancer”.

Maybe you won’t be a ballerina on pointe for any longer than Wendy (she really pushed the limits) but it doesn’t mean you have to stop being a dancer.

After watching Wendy in my teens, I got to meet her in person in my 20’s. I was dancing with the Louisville Ballet, in Wendy’s home state of Kentucky. I got to see her in the studio and once again see her on stage in Louisville. She came to the restaurant where I was a hostess and I got to serve her scallops and grits (she cleaned her plate).

The gorgeously humble and kind person you’ll see in this documentary is who Wendy truly is. I feel honored that I got to experience that first hand but also so glad dancer’s can take it in forever through this film.

Restless Creature is a much watch for all dancers. For those of you who are in the beginning stages of your career, it will give you some essential insights into the winding trajectory of a dance career. For those later in your dancing lives it will help you to see that there is more to come.

Watching life progress to her last performance with New York City Ballet you’ll feel all the passion, the pain, the pleasure of what a life in dance can be.

A life in dance really is a beautiful and admirable pursuit. Even if you don’t make it to Wendy Whelan status (and most won’t) the joy is so worth the pain.

Wherever you are in dance, take a tip from Wendy – let your dance career and your life be about exploring. The end of ballerina – ing is not an end but a progression.

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You likely see yourself retiring sometime in your 30’s or after you’ve performed all the principal roles you’ve ever desired. However, this career is unpredictable and things may not go as planned.

So, I want to call your attention to Shelby Elstree’s latest post on her blog Tutu’s and Tea (if you haven’t read it, go check it out) where she talk’s about her choice to retire at 25.

The maturity and wisdom in her decision making demonstrates, all over again, why she has been such an inspiration for me at The Whole Dancer.

Shelby is a Whole Dancer.

When you think about the end of your own career, consider Shelby’s thoughts…”My dreams for retirement were to finish dancing in a time and place where I felt confident about my career, proud of my body (not injured or broken or overworked), and in control of my mind and my decision.”

Such a beautiful goal.

Honor the ending. (The following was adapted from Melody Beattie’s book Journey to the Heart)

“There were times I felt exhilarated and sure I was on track. Other days I felt lost. Confused. I’d fall into bed at night certain this whole journey was a mistake and a waste.

But I’d wake up in the morning, something would happen, and I’d see how I’d been guided all along.

Cherish the moments, all of them, even the ups and downs. Cherish the places you’ve visited, the people you’ve seen. Say good – bye to those whose journeys have called them someplace else.

Know you can always call them back by thinking loving thoughts. Know all those you love will be there for you when you need them most. Honor the lessons you’ve learned, and the people who helped you learn them. Honor the journey your soul mapped out for you.

Trust all the places you’ve been. Make a scrapbook in your heart to help you remember.

Look back for a moment. Reflect in peace. Then let this journey draw to a close. All parts of the journey are sacred and holy. You’ve learned that by now. Take time to honor this ending – though it’s never really the end. Go to sleep tonight. When you wake up tomorrow a new adventure will begin.“

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