In my opinion management is about you. Most leaders have strong and captivating personality. For instance, Elon Musk: what makes him a true manager? How did he manage to create companies as PayPal, SpaceX, and Tesla Motors. He's inspiring, innovative, fast-acting, ambitious. He is like a magnet that attracts you, grabs you. Some of his co-workers say, that they have become 10-times smarter with Elon. Then what we can learn from him:
1. Develop yourself (then people will be drawn to you)
2. Believe in yourself
3. Set boundaries (in order not to work 100 hours/week and not to sleep on the floor in the office)
4. Don't be afraid to fail
And remember:
"If you want to change the world, make your bed at first"