I am looking from the point of those freshies who recently joined the working class. In the beginning they can afford to be choosy and idealistic (money doesn't mean everything) but when it comes to time to settle down - where they need to start or plan for a whole family, things will be a lot different and money certainly counts and motivate.
In the Asian context, there is a preference for employing married people because they are viewed as more stable (because there is a family and 'money' to consider should one think of throwing in the towel).
Hello Harry! Wishing you well!
In my case it was the opposite: I saved money like some sort of grotesque little Swiss gnome up to nearly this point in my life - now I regret not marrying and having kids. I recently dated a woman I would have loved to have sprouted a kid or two with, but unfortunately it was a long-distance relationship - she lives in the Florida Keys, I live nearly 400 miles/600km north from her and she broke up with me after meeting a guy closer to home (although we remain close friends and I visited her and her dad over this last weekend.)
Fortunately my best friend/ semi-adopted big sister Marianne has, at the tender age of fifty-one, twelve grandkids (!) who call me Grampa John. Grandkid hugs are the best hugs there are, and the added benefit is that I get to have grandkids without having to raise teenagers who certainly would have been at the very least as annoying as I was.
Kind Regards, Harry! -John
P.S. : Harry, I don't know if you are married, but if you aren't I know a very intelligent, very nice, and very good-looking woman in Malaysia, down in Miri in Sarawak Province on Borneo.. 45 minute flight from Johore, max. I'm just saying.
