The fact that the data doesn't fit a normal curve doesn't mean that the process isn't stable. You might be dealing with a different distribution. In statistical analysis, "stable" and "in control" mean the same thing. They both mean that the process output follows a reasonably predictable path, and sources of special-cause variation have been identified and eliminated. A process can be statistically stable and produce nothing but nonconforming output. A process that's stable and the mean of which is centered between the specification limits is said to be "capable."