I am not an industry spokesman, but I have worked in both industries. I think FAI came first, and PPAP was an evolution from first-piece-inspection once the U.S. Big Three realized statistical control in production was needed to compete with the quality of Japanese Automakers in the 1970's and 1980's. In Aerospace and Defense, production volumes might be in the neighborhood of 20/year. In Automotive, production volumes might be 20 per hour or 20 per minute. So the stereotype is a different scale of production. Automotive may use more assembly line production, with a high incentive for mass-produced parts which fit together interchangeably. Aerospace might have lower production rates, so they have different needs.
The Aerospace industry is in fact moving in the direction of more comprehensive and rigorous Advanced Product Quality Planning, with their version of
APQP/PPAP initiatives.